IMO, your only 30, there are plenty of women out there in their 30's that dont have kids...usually honestly they are the more well adjusted/career focused ones who don't want all the drama(hense no kids), and who dont sleep around and have kid at 18-22...
Just my feelings...there arent a whole lot of well adjusted highly educated women who had kids at 18-22...sure there are some but they are by far in the minority.
But some women just take it to far and think there kid is the most special, non disruptive, kid in the universe.
My girl litteraly has to lie to her if we give her to a baby sitter and do something with each other or she gets jelly and cries. I know exactly what you are talking about & I just will not date women like this anymore. If I get a baby-sitter I can tell my 6yr old it's because i'm going out & he understands. I dated a woman over yr ago with a child exactly like the one you described. If she left the house with me it was complete hysterics.
Brb No alone time Brb Constant interuptions from kid, cannot have a conversation without kid interupting Brb Kid wants a toy, a dog, a cat, a gerbal, and any other animal and wont quit asking for it despite being told no Brb Kid wants all mommys attention all the time Brb Mom is all stressed out from over bearing kid and takes it out on me causing needless arguments Brb Do not want to listen to parenting advice Brb Kid secretly resesnts me, despite how nice i am to it, and talks crap behind back to GF's mom about how she is ignored Brb Cant watch a movie or talk on phone untill kid is asleep because GF cannot say Its rude to interupt people while they are watching movie or on phone when kid demands attention, despite having it all day Brb GF not wanting to work out or excersise because kid wont sit still for 20 mins while she runs on tread mill and i help her train The list goes on..
Im noticing that most single women with kids simply do not know how to stand up to there children, daughters especially.
You may disagree, but look at sites like that cost $$$, your more likely to find chicks who have their **** together and arent paying for kids or no income welfare hillbillies if they are willing to spend /mo to find someone. ref=4abffc9d33310I disagree, its just that a lot of the ones who dont have kids are at work 8-5 like the rest of us and dont go out all the time because we're exhausted or dont have friends who can hook them up with someone.
Current GF's daughter is 8 years old, and while she has her moments, for the most part she is a coniving little turd.
Im aware, but lets be honest, having a kid is a strong genetic desire for most women.